The Fortnight of Remembrance
Pitru Paksh is a period dedicated to the Pitrs (ancestors). It is a time when the veil between worlds is believed to be thin, allowing us to express gratitude and help the souls of our forefathers find peace through the act of Shraddh.
Pitri Rina
The debt we owe our ancestors for our existence. Rituals performed now are believed to liberate the souls of three generations of ancestors.
Universal Peace
While specific days are for lineage, the period concludes with Sarvapitri Amavasya, where offerings are made for all souls, even those with no living descendants.
The Lunar Cycle
Observance follows the Krishna Paksha (waning phase) of the moon. This descent of light signifies the transition of energy toward ancestral realms.
Dimensions of the Ceremony
A complete Shraddh is more than just a ritual; it is a spiritual ecosystem combining food, water, and social charity. The chart below visualizes the essential balance of a traditional observance.
- Pind Daan: The physical offering (nourishment).
- Tarpan: The energetic offering (libation).
- Seva & Charity: The social offering (merit).
Tithi Identification Guide
Find the appropriate day for rituals based on the ancestor's relationship or the specific circumstances of their passing.
Ritual Procedure
Preparation is key to a successful Shraddh. Use the checklist to gather materials and follow the sequence for a standard household Tarpan.
Preparation Checklist
Setting the Space
Place a wooden platform facing South. Spread a clean white cloth. Arrange the sesame, barley, and kusha grass. Wash your hands and perform Aachman (purification).
The Invocations
Face East for Gods, North for Sages. Offer water and white sesame. Focus your mind on the lineage of light that preceded your birth.
Pitri Tarpan
Face South. Use the 'Pitri Teerth' (the space between thumb and index finger) to pour water mixed with black sesame. Mentally invite your ancestors by name and gotra.
Pancha Bali (The 5 Offerings)
Prepare five portions of food for: Cow (Go Bali), Dog (Shwan Bali), Crow (Kaka Bali), Ants (Devadi Bali), and the Brahmin/Priest.
Code of Conduct
Essential guidelines to maintain the sanctity of the Pitru Paksh period.
✔ Observances
- Perform Tarpan during the 'Kutupa Muhurta' (noon time).
- Observe austerity in speech, action, and diet.
- Show kindness to animals and the elderly.
- Practice silent meditation or read sacred texts like Garuda Purana.
✖ Restrictions
- Avoid starting new business ventures or major purchases.
- Refrain from consuming 'Tamasic' items (meat, alcohol).
- Postpone celebratory events like engagements or housewarmings.
- Avoid conflict or harsh arguments within the family.